Forgiveness 1984

Forgiveness is a step toward meaningful relationships
Because it builds on trust and not on failure.

Forgiveness is the attitude that is willing to understand
And to take a person into full confidence again.

Forgiveness is closing the chapters on the past,
Whatever its circumstances,
And opening the doors of the heart to friendship and love.

Forgiveness is a great therapy for the heart, because it helps the forgiver
As well as the forgiven.  It settles old issues that bother both.

Forgiveness is necessary if a person is to be free from bitterness and hurt.
If forgiveness does not wash the heart clean, it is prey to festering memories
Of the unforgiven experiences

Forgiveness is an uplifting experience, for it exercises the positive motions
Of the heart,
Like faith and trust, love and understanding
And where these attitudes are allowed to rule, all of life is benefited.


--On the cover of the Marriage Encounter Newsletter